Now then I realize how important family bonding is especially with your siblings. So much had happened recently. While your parents are still alive, it is them that keep the family together. And when they no longer around, what's left is you and your siblings. If you're not close with your siblings, to whom you going to turn to when there's problem? When there's a close relationship between you and your siblings, you can share any problems with them, doesn't matter whether it's a shameful thing. They will be there to help you find or solve a problem. Always be there with your family through the good as well as the bad times.
I miss my maternal grandparents. They were always independent. Not wanting to be a burden to their children. But at the same time I'm glad that they're gone because they don't have to go through the 'anak derhaka' thingy and seeing what had happened recently. Nenek gemuk I missed the most. I really wish she was here. But I can only pray for her. Well, sometimes it's not a good thing to miss someone who has left us too much. Like me, every where I go, every old woman I see, she will reminds me of nenek. I mean, like last week, I was this old lady, looked exactly like nenek. I was shock. I was like, 'Oh my God. Nenek still alive?'. I istighfar bynk2. Tak baik pikir gitu. Yang pergi tu sudah.
So, please treasure every moment with your loved ones. Make that every second a memorable one. You'll never know when they are going to leave you. Only Allah.
"A family that sticks together, stays together"
Love,
nUr
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